The person you want to give a piece of your mind.
The argument you want to win.
The “I told you so” that you’ve been molding and honing until it’s perfectly crafted.
All of these responses are infused with an emotional energy that isn’t going to help.
The first step is to drop the rope.
Not because you are indifferent, but because you care. You care a lot. And whatever this thing is that you have to speak your truth about, it’s not the kind of thing that will have a right, a wrong, a winner and a loser.
Not if it’s ultimately going to get where you’re so yearning to go.